Your marriage must not be dependent on the opinions of others – Counselor Adofoli

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Renowned Ghanaian marriage Counselor, Frank Adem Adofoli has advised that marriage or relationships should not be based on the opinions of others as this could spell doom for such an association.

He advises that people must rather go into relationships because they are ready for it with an understanding that love in relationship is not magic but it needs to be built.

“They understand their relationship does not need to be like that of everyone’s own and for that matter it does not need to make sense to anyone. Because of that they don’t go around seeking for people’s opinions of their relationship or partner”, he revealed in his latest article.

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YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS NOT A COMMUNITY PROJECT

Relationship or marriage has always been the business of mature people, but unfortunately we have lots of boys and girls in relationships. A mature man or woman knows what they want because they know themselves very well and their needs. They also understand every individual is different, likewise their needs and wants when it comes to marriage.

They don’t date or get married based on others’ opinions or description. They go into relationships because they are ready and prepared. They also understand love in relationship is not magic but it needs to be built.

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They understand their relationship does not need to be like that of everyone’s own and for that matter it does not need to make sense to anyone. Because of that they don’t go around seeking for people’s opinions of their relationship or partner.

They don’t put their partners out there for public discussions and reviews; not even with their family and friends. When their partner does things or shows behaviour they are not happy about, their first point of contact is their partner and not the public or others.

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