Men of recent times have concluded that the only language women understand and believe in is money and once she has enough in her possession, there is no need for her to complain of other things.
According marriage counselor Frank Edem Adofoli, women are seen as complicated by men, so difficult to understand them to the point they know the truth and still want to be told.
He observed that many men think the only language a woman best understands, believes and doesn’t question or doubt is when you give her money which though cannot buy her understanding, it has the power to keep her silent or busy or put a smile on their face which is not enough.
He wrote “Many men think the only language a woman best understands, believes and doesn’t question or doubt is when you give her money. Money cannot buy her understanding. Although it has the power to keep her silent or busy or put a smile on their face, that is not enough.
Women are not complicated as men think, women just need to know their men truly care for them. So when you tell her you love her, despite your kind gesture etc. as time goes on, she would like to find out if you still love her and that nothing has changed. It does not mean you never loved her, it never means she has found someone else, it doesn’t mean she doubts your love. She just wants to confirm you have not changed”
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