Outspoken Marriage Counselor and Motivational Speaker, Rev. Charlotte Oduro, has advised young ladies to desist from chasing rich married men because they will end up becoming side chicks forever and not wives.
She said these rich married men just enjoy company with young girls but will never leave their wives to marry them.
Rev. Charlotte Oduro described girls who yearn to be baby Mama’s to some rich men as ‘cheap’ advising them to get boyfriends with vision and build future with them.
”Please women should stop going for, I want the man who has money, go for a guy who has brains and is not lazy, a guy who is smoking and drinking, a guy who is enjoying his father’s money and two years to come the guy has nothing, but there are guys from poor homes, they have brains, they are working, they are praying, they have vision, they are working it out. You are beautiful, educated help them,” Rev. Charlotte Oduro told Emmanuel Nana Boakye (Rapchar) on the Akwaaba Drive on Accra based Kingdom FM 107.7.
The controversial Marriage Counselor urged girls to support their poor boyfriends who have a vision of going into businesses.
I want a guy who has a Range Rover today, Range Rover, will be an old one tomorrow. Now they are doing Galaxy A10s and what have you, every time things change, build yourself and stop being choosy, ladies who go for the stars, they will sleep with you and leave you. If you want fame to create your own fame, somebody’s son is a star today, can’t the man celebrate you,’ she advised.
“My dear marriage is not about the one who looks good…marriage is about the one who understands you. It is about the one who can love and cherish you. Young ladies listen to me, go for somebody who will honor and respect you…go for somebody who fears God and stop following all these stars and guys around who will just use you and dump you”, she advised.
She cautioned that marriage goes beyond material things and advised ladies to go beyond those things they easily get swayed off as a result.