A Nigerian Lady, on Tuesday, October 22, 2019, took to her facebook page to share a relationship advice which she also tagged an ‘unpopular opinion’.
The lady advised her fellow ladies not to turn down a date from a man because they have a boyfriend, and even if the man wants to be more than friends, the lady should politely say ”No i am not interested” as opposed to the conventional ”I have a boyfriend”
Read her post below ;
Ladies, when a man ask you out on a date, do not decline because you have a boyfriend. Going out on a date is not to ‘make out’ but a friendly offer for the purpose of getting to know you better and be friends moving forward.
Do not send good people out of your lives because you have a boo who probably has a boo.
Even if a man wants you to be his lover, do not say,” I have a boyfriend”, just say a polite “no, I am not interested”.
Let everything you do be about you and because of you. There are women who are married, who say “I am married” and have lovers anyway.
So, be friendly, polite, respectful and firm. A decent man will not force it.
I have great expectations this week and I pray your week goes according to plan.
Cheers you all.
This message is an unpopular opinion,
It is for the disciplined,smart and wise people..
Not for everybody