Get creative with a blindfold.
Blindfold your partner and play a guessing game. What kind of food are you feeding them? (Like that scene in Nine and a Half Weeks.) What are you touching them with? Where will you touch them next? Lelo sells a pleasure set with a feather teaser, blindfold, and couples’ massager if you want to go all out.
Buy an actual sex game.
There are literally tens of them. Some come in playing card format. Others require a special pair of dice. Some are set up like board games, and board games are all the rage these days. This one, called , is a mix of all three. Gamble on your night, with a helpful assist from pre-made prompts and easy-to-follow rules.
Play sexy Jenga.
Buy a Jenga set if you don’t already own one. On each block, write a command. You decide what, but we suggest starting at “lick my ear” and working your way up from there. When you successfully remove a block from the tower, your partner must perform the command on you. Customize a punishment for if you knock the tower down—possibly picking up the next bar tab?
Try an easy balancing act.
Bet your partner 50 cents that they can’t balance two quarters on their hands for 10 minutes. Their hands must be palms down on a table, each quarter resting on the back of a hand. Now, you have 10 minutes to do whatever it takes to upset those hands. You take it from here. And bonus, you could win 50 cents!